ABOUT ENI
Hi, I'm Eni :)
I made this blog with love! You'll find that my content is a mix of everything.
If I had a little sister these are everything I would want her to know.
I hope this turns into your safe place! Stay tuned for new content daily.
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SELF LOVE SERIES
What does it mean to have self love?
it means you're comfortable with yourself, which naturally makes you feel at peace externally and out in the world. the more self love is practiced, it will start to feel automatic. things that once triggered/bothered you before won't have a strong pull on you and your emotions anymore. you become in control of yourself and your reactions. for example, someone who doesn't practice self love may be easily offended by other peoples remarks. in contrast, one doesn't pay the issue any mind because they are secure in who they are. they don't depend on others' validation and mood swings.
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SELF LOVE SERIES
How do I cultivate self love?
Self care. Love letters to your past and future self. Forgive yourself for dimming your light for others. forgive yourself for holding onto guilt, shame, fears, doubts, insecurities. forgive yourself for internalizing other people's energies and making it as your own. Trusting in yourself and your abilities. Genuinely compliment yourself and others. Be gentle with yourself. Treat yourself how you would want your younger inner self to be treated. Receive compliments graciously without self-deprecation. allow your beauty to be seen and admired. adore yourself, adore your body. take time for yourself. prioritize yourself above all else. allow what's to go, to go. allow life to flow without control and expectations. spend more time in nature and with animals if you struggle with control.
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DREAM GIRL SERIES: HEALING ACTIVIATION
I created a specific guide for you in your healing journey.
this healing guide is full of prompts, journalling and alchemy to help stimulate your self love activation. My blog scratches the surface on the importance of self love when becoming your own version of a dream girl, now let this worksheet dive deeper into your heart.
Inside here you will find:
- Over 50+ journalling questions + prompts to gently assist your subconscious mind in remembering events you consciously have forgotten.
- 30+ Shadow work questions.
- 50+ Childhood reprogramming.
- 100+ exclusive healing and self love Affirmations.
- Revitalizing your nervous system with EFT tapping & 10+ selective affirmations.
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SELF-REBRAND LIKE A DREAM GIRL
This Dream Girl Series Rebranding E-book is intended for those who are serious about their self love journey, and desire to upgrade their lifestyle.
I have created this 7 page E-book which includes journaling prompts, and full of information on being abundant, loving, confident, and self-branding yourself to your highest potential you can be. After this, you will be more in alignment with your Higher Self.
INSIDE HERE YOU WILL FIND:
- 7 pages full of self improvement tactics and level up mindset.
- Curating an abundance mindset.
- Specific series on desires, love, money, alignment, abundance, and more.
- 20+ specifically designed rebranding questions.
- MAKING ENERGY/Money becomE obsessed with you.
& more.
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PRETTY GIRL HEALING: BOUNDARIES, HIGH STANDARDS AND SELF WORTH
I created this 6 pages + in depth e-book with journalling prompts and affirmations about setting and maintaining boundaries, which automatically helps heal your self worth and self love.
Inside here you will find:
- 10+ exclusive affirmations & journalling prompts to assist with setting boundaries and maintaining high standards.
- Why you need boundaries with people, as well as personal boundaries.
- Self love, self worth, laws of the Universe, money mindset, etc etc talks.
- Reframing your subconscious mind to work in your favour.
- all things in relation to betterment and upgrading your life. No more people pleasing, being taken advantage of and/or distasteful life experiences/people
- Operating from a state of wholeness and living life as your best/higher self.
And so much more.
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CHAKRA BALANCING - APHRODITE'S HEALING TOUCH
SELF LOVE SERIES
How do I tap into that energy everyday?
belief system restructuring: find an affirmation that "lights up"your nervous system, and makes you feel good, something that sticks. then religiously affirm yourself with it. my favourite is "I am Divinely protected and directed." you can say "I am __" all you want but it won't do anything if you're not resonating with it.
eft tapping: Tapping draws on the ancient Chinese practice of acupuncture, which teaches that the body's energy travels along specific pathways. you tap the following: karate chop, top of head, side eye, under eye, under nose, under chin, collarbone, and under arm. and repeat with the other side. How I do it: I write the tapping points with an affirmation of what to say beside it for each of them. for example: Karate chop - I love myself. top of head - i love my voice. side eye - i love my face. under eye - i love my body.. etc etc etc..
SELF LOVE SERIES
Reprogramming love:
All of the energy that you absorbed growing up has made a home out of you. It could have been a safe home, abusive, or a mix of both. The good news is reprogramming is very malleable. You don't have to be a victim to what you endured anymore. It's much easier said than done, though, because you are engineering your brain from scratch, only this time to your advantage. it will require diving into the depths of your heart and comforting your hurt inner child. not to worry, we're going to do it the goddess way. now that you know the brain is your bitch, we're going to transform you into a dream girl!
SELF LOVE SERIES
Self love, self worth, self respect.. whats the difference?
Self love is the big sister. Self worth is the strong mama. Self respect is the feisty, unapologetic grandma.
It all stems from feeling or not feeling good enough. Were you bullied as a child? Neglected? Abandoned? Left to fend for yourself? Were you lied to? Used? Abused? controlled? all that you experienced had an impact on whether or not you felt worthy. if you were all of the above, you don't believe that you are deserving of the good, because you've never had it. how can you blame yourself for something you don't know anything about? you have to give yourself credit and to be more gentle with yourself. it's not and was never your fault. you've been in this cocoon phase all your life, of course you won't know that transforming into a butterfly is the next level.
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Self love and heartache - part 1
What do you do when you outgrow people you love? What do you do with all the love you feel and have no home for it? What do you do when people don't care to have your love? Self love mixed with heartache is bittersweet. You carry an abundance of love, yet nobody seems to want it, or let alone reciprocate. You give and give just because you think people have the same heart as you. they don't.
It' becomes a harsh awakening when you realize that no amount of love you give will make people love you more. They'll notice it for a moment, but they won't turn into someone you fantasied. in your mind it could all be so simple because love is your nature, it's easy for you to love. they operate differently. now because they don't and won't love you the way you envisioned, you feel possessed by a cruel desire and unmet longings. you then repeatedly get drawn to them, but no matter what you repeatedly get rejected. this intensity - which is wonderful when love is returned - only amplifies the overwhelming pain instead. you feel like you have something to prove; something that shows you are also deserving of not just always giving love, but receiving it too.
so how do you fix this need for a "love fix"?
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Self love and heartache - part 2
you fix it by pouring all of that one sided love back into yourself. it was never theirs to begin with. it was always yours. so you can take it back whenever you want. love yourself, hard. do it out of spite if you have to. you want revenge? love yourself so loudly. self love is the best middle finger.
you take back all of the fantasies, longings and desires you placed upon them and start bringing awareness back to your body, to your heart, brain and spirit. you put all the attention into yourself above all else this time around.
by loving more than you are loved, you operate from a higher frequency. you can call it the love frequency. initially, this phase will hurt like hell. it feels like you are losing everything you once loved and all that was familiar, and that's scary. it's terrifying. change hurts and feels like death. but without death, how will you be reborn? you have to shed this old identity if you want to become a dream girl.
you owe it to yourself to stand up for yourself and stay true to yourself. if you feel selfish for choosing yourself, don't. those who neglected your love can't come with you in this higher journey because they don't understand you anymore.
reframe your thinking: if they want to be in your energy still, they must also do all the intense healing that you did. when you choose to evolve, you will lose people who choose to continue living in their comfort zone. let them leave. just keep operating out of love and you will effortlessly attract people who are on your wavelength. stay true to yourself, and elevate your self worth.
SELF LOVE SERIES
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SELF LOVE SERIES
DIVINE LOVE
Learning to love yourself is less about learning to love, and more about remembering to be loved. you already know how to love. you came from love. love is your nature. the universe is love, itself and you are part of the universe. you love your aesthetic, style, tastes, loved ones, etc. when you remember your divine nature as pure love, you will realize that all you need to do is simply remember. subject yourself to the power of your own compassion until it becomes your new normal. force yourself to feel your love. this way, you're taking yourself apart only to put yourself back together again, just this time to your liking. being in this cocoon of feelings is necessary because only then will you finally feel deserving to be loved.
GODDESS POWER SERIES
Goddess Alchemy
As women we tend to over-give and overextend ourselves for others. We place our desires, energy and needs last because we think it's selfish to prioritize ourselves. We're not doing that anymore. You have to learn to appreciate yourself before placing your life in the hands of others. Drink from your own full cup first. Don't drain yourself, and if they want to give you a brand new cup just because they want to, let them. You're already content with yours, this is just an extra. Relish in it. Decorate it, even. Make it officially yours. there is no need for guilt. you deserve all the best. Tell the world that you love to receive and you will receive endlessly.
GODDESS POWER SERIES
Spoiled like a Goddess
You must reclaim your power. take back all of your self worth from everything that drained you of it. big part in being able to receive your divine blessings is knowing that you are divine itself, and thus it is your birthright times infinity. in case you forgot, we live in a universe of universes. you can have it all. forget about scarcity. Burn it from your memory. a lack mindset is so worthless, you're draining yourself every time you think poorly when you could be transmuting it and creating your dream life. remember when i said that you can change your brain? that includes going from lack to abundance. how can you receive anything if you are holding yourself back from grabbing all that you deserve?
GODDESS POWER SERIES
Spoiled like a Goddess
Do you desire to be spoiled endlessly? Do you desire to have all of your needs like - rent, phone bill, pilates/gym membership, quality healthcare, delicious groceries? Do you desire to visit the world in style? Lavish 5 star hotels + resorts, expensive cars, designer shopping sprees? Do you desire your very own 2 storey penthouse overlooking the ocean in your favourite city? Do you desire a small farm where you take care of animals? Do you desire being funded for whatever business ventures you wish to explore? Do you desire investments and all sorts of wealth creating assets in your name? Properties, tangible assets, gold, land, wills, etc etc etc. the message here is simple. you can have it all. whatever you think sounds crazy or out of touch with "reality." all of it. everything starts with a dream. nothings holding you back but yourself. by yourself i mean your doubts, and by doubts i mean the voices of others. excuses are also worthless. the universe can infinity create itself but you can't find a way to live your best life? that's pathetic. you never doubted yourself. people doubted you. you just absorbed it. when you doubt yourself and your power, you are allowing others to siphon your divine energy that is beyond powerful.
affirm with me: i am in alignment with the universes frequency.
CONFIDENCE BUILDING SERIES
Who's your muse?
journalling prompt:
when you envision your higher/best self, who do you think of? what does she look like? what is her character like? what is her style? does she have good posture? how does she walk? what does she do when faced with stress? how does she treat nature? how does she treat herself? what does she smell like? who does she associate herself with? who does she date? does she date? how much money does she have? how does she speak to herself? what is her aesthetic like? is her voice deep, raspy, soft, sultry, high pitched, low pitched? how do people see and treat her? does she stand up for herself? describe her. breathe life into her. everything starts with A DREAM.
My muse is rihanna. from the way she dresses, walks, acts, texts, carries herself. she is authentic and unapologetically herself. she makes everything look glamorous because she naturally exudes glamour effortlessly. she is playful yet assertive. a perfect mix of divine feminine and the dark feminine.
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CONFIDENCE BUILDING SERIES
now that you are healing your self blocks and past conditioning, we are going to tap into the sexiest, most unapologetic energy you've ever felt.
Remember the butterfly phase i mentioned in the self love series? we're freeing ourself out of that cocoon and transforming just like a butterfly.
to be confident means seeing yourself inside out, and still loving yourself. it's accepting yourself as you are, and telling the world that you will take me as i am or not at all, and not asking for their permission, either. i refuse to say "accepting your insecurities" because to be a dream girl means you know you have none. even if you do, forget about it. pretend you don't. law of assumption babes.
it's not taking a bubble bath, or treating yourself with materials. that is considered self care, but not necessarily long term confidence. by the end of these series, i want you to feel like you are exploding with power all the time. you wake up and breathe power.
How to be more confident part 1
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How to be more confident part 2
the moment your feet hit the ground expect everyone to tremble. it doesn't have to be literal. if you're fearful of people, things, events, places, practice shifting your thinking. instead of convincing your brain that you're scared, walk as if whatever you're scared of is scared of you.
don't fear nothing. embody a lion attitude. if you're a leo or have leo placements, all the better. utilize that dangerous energy. if you have no leo, pretend. muster up all the strength you can find within you and take advantage of it. give your buried pain something useful to do. use your trauma as fuel for rightful rage. the key here is not allowing anyone to make you their bitch. always stick up for yourself. you're not a doormat. you're not a people pleaser, and if you are, you're welcome for this blog.
CONFIDENCE BUILDING SERIES
If you have the mindset that you are perfect then you are perfect.
it's all about how you see yourself. you get more out of life depending on your self concept. The only thing that is standing in the way of your desires, no matter how big they may seem, is yourself. it's you versus you. not you verus anybody else. that's your comfort zone lying to you.
nothing is too big or small for the universe. it's only too "big" for you because you are limiting your powers. when i say powers, i mean powers. like wizards. whatever you feed your brain, it will bring that forth. also known as manifestation.
having self confidence is sexy. start acting like you own the place. you become a sexy when you say so. not when the world tells you to feel sexy. if you are waiting for others to decide your life, you will be waiting forever. get up and be a bad girl. it seems like nobody wants to be a bad girl these days.
GLAMOUR SERIES
unlocking your own it girl potential
- don't try to be anybody else. be unapologetically yourself.
- you're the main character. everyone else is just a side character. live your life on your terms and live it loudly.
- have your own style. discover your own uniqueness. my staple look is red lipstick, red nails and big earrings.
- discover your own signature scent. smelling delicious 24/7 is a must. if you want to be embedded inside peoples subconscious very effortlessly, then invest in quality perfumes. when i smell something and it reminds me of my ex lovers, i suddenly forget about the breakup and want to go back. not because of them, but a signature scent is thAT POWERFUL.
- remain unattainable. your energy is a gift. not everyone deserves access to you.